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Episode 1

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Written By Rose

Voodoolily Podcast Episode One

Welcome to the Voodoolily Podcast! This show is brought to you by Voodoolily Publishing, where we offer parents effective strategies for better communication with their children.

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Hello, and welcome back! I’m Simon, and here with me is Rose.

Today, we’ll explore our journey from stories to storytelling and dive into child moral development.

This week, we’ll examine how stories influence human behavior. Later, Rose, our Editor-in-Chief at Voodoolily, will discuss Kohlberg’s theory of moral development.

Stories have a powerful effect on our imagination and behavior. They guide us on how to act, live, and even how to feel, shaping our understanding and providing meaning throughout our lives. This self-development process begins in early childhood and continues into old age, influenced by the cultural expectations of what makes a meaningful narrative and a healthy self.

Researchers say that stories significantly impact children’s understanding of values, beliefs, attitudes, and social norms, which in turn shape their perceptions of reality. Our lives are woven from stories, and these stories help develop who we are.

Stories captivate our imagination. The storyteller aims to engage the reader and make them believe in their perspective. While literature affects our beliefs and provides us with frameworks and concepts, Rose, why is it important for children to create their own stories?

Rose:

In the early years, children share their daily experiences through storytelling. They often tell their stories loudly to understand themselves and express their experiences to others. Through storytelling, children develop a “personal voice” and learn to communicate their unique experiences and worldview. This process helps them understand themselves better and build a sense of self that evolves as their life experiences grow.

Simon:

But Rose, should we encourage our children to create their own stories, even if we don’t think they’ll become writers?

Rose:

Simon, let me introduce a concept from psychology called Narrative Psychology. This field explores how people use stories to make sense of their experiences and those of others. Children are no exception; they constantly incorporate aspects of themselves into their stories. By listening to their stories, we gain insight into their beliefs and self-perception. Children’s stories offer us a window into their world and allow us to engage with them creatively.

Simon:

To illustrate, let’s consider “Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer,” a popular children’s story.

You know the poem:

You know Dasher and Dancer and Prancer and Vixen Comet and Cupid and Donner and Blitzen But do you recall The most famous reindeer of all? Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer Had a very shiny nose And if you ever saw it You would even say it glows

Rudolph, created by Robert Lewis May in the 20th century, became the lead reindeer due to his glowing red nose. Initially ridiculed for his difference, Rudolph’s unique nose eventually helped guide Santa’s sleigh through harsh winter weather.

Vivian Maria Vasquez, an Education Professor at American University, shows that young children blend reality with their stories. For example, a four-year-old girl named Hannah drew Rudolph with a red X above him, symbolizing “not allowed.” Through this drawing, Hannah expressed her feelings about being bullied and her wish for Rudolph, and herself, not to be teased. Her story and drawing revealed her personal experience and emotions.

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Hannah Identifies with a Bullied Rudolph

Rose:

Yes, Simon. Children’s stories reflect their thoughts, behavior, and even their identities. Through storytelling, children reveal how they think, manage their actions, and shape their personalities.

Simon:

Providing children with a sense of meaning in life is crucial—perhaps even more important than pursuing happiness. Experts suggest that chasing happiness alone can lead to unhappiness. Meaning in life is deeper and more enduring. According to Martin E. P. Seligman, an American psychologist and self-help author, people achieve fulfillment when they use their strengths and talents to contribute to something greater than themselves. Storytelling plays a significant role in this by helping children make sense of their experiences, develop their sense of self, and connect with their culture. Stories also provide meaning and concepts that enrich our understanding of life.

Simon:

Rose, let’s discuss how stories can be misused for propaganda and how specific targeting concepts can shape meaning.

Rose:

Before we dive into that, let’s explore the concept of meaning in life a bit more.

Emily Esfahani Smith, author of The Power of Meaning: Crafting a Life that Matters, distinguishes between meaning and happiness. She identifies four pillars of meaning:

  1. Belonging: Feeling connected to others, being valued, and treating one another with respect.
  2. Purpose: Having a sense of direction in life, whether through significant achievements or simple acts of respect and support.
  3. Storytelling: Sharing key life experiences to build a deeper understanding of ourselves and enhance our sense of meaning.
  4. Transcendence: Experiencing a state of complete focus and immersion, often found in nature, religion, or other profound experiences.

When it comes to assigning meaning through religion, some radical groups exploit this to further their agendas.

Kathy G. Short from the University of Arizona defines storytelling as meaning-making, while Louise Rosenblatt refers to it as World-Making. Literature provides an opportunity to explore infinite possibilities and meanings. However, radical groups understand how to manipulate stories to promote their extreme views. It’s crucial for parents to provide meaningful stories to their children to counteract these radical influences. Stories can profoundly shape children’s perspectives and actions, influencing their choices and behavior.

Simon:

Rose, how do you think extremist groups use fiction as propaganda to reach their goals?

Rose:

Let’s look at some evidence. Katherine Elder from the University of Southern California recently published an insightful article titled “Propaganda for Kids: Comparing IS-Produced Propaganda to Depictions of Propaganda in The Hunger Games and Harry Potter Films.”

The Hunger Games, by Suzanne Collins, and the Harry Potter series, by J.K. Rowling, depict fictional worlds where propaganda plays a significant role. The Islamic State (IS) also uses propaganda to further its agenda. Elder’s article compares how IS’s propaganda techniques align with those depicted in these popular book series. She identifies similarities that could affect how younger audiences critically perceive such propaganda in their own lives.

Simon:

Considering your points, I’m thinking about morality. What exactly is morality? How can we evaluate it? Is it shaped by our culture?

Rose:

Morality is a complex and debated topic. Traditionally, social scientists have viewed morality as a cultural construct, though some argue for a scientific basis for moral principles. To understand this, we need to define culture. Culture encompasses shared values, beliefs, and behaviors that influence how people interpret each other’s actions. It is learned from one’s social environment rather than inherited genetically. Therefore, human behavior is significantly shaped by cultural context.

Culture includes concepts like morality, which refers to notions of right and wrong that may vary between cultures. Literature helps children form their understanding of life and morality. However, these concepts can sometimes become diluted through daily practices and rituals.

Lawrence Kohlberg’s theory of moral development offers insight into how moral reasoning evolves. Kohlberg, an American psychologist, built on Jean Piaget’s work to study how people’s moral judgments change with age. He identified three levels of moral development, each with two sub-stages:

  1. Pre-Conventional Morality: Young children base their moral decisions on avoiding punishment and receiving rewards. For example, Stage 1 is focused on obedience and punishment avoidance.
  2. Conventional Morality: Adolescents and adults adhere to societal norms and seek to maintain good relationships and approval from others. Stage 3 involves valuing interpersonal relationships.
  3. Post-Conventional Morality: Individuals at this stage develop their own moral principles based on justice and human rights, often challenging societal norms. Stage 6 involves universal ethical principles.

Kohlberg’s studies show that as people grow older, their moral reasoning becomes more sophisticated. However, only a small percentage reach the highest stage of moral development, where principles of equality and justice guide their actions, even at personal risk.

Simon:

So, according to Kohlberg’s theory, to reach the highest stage of moral development, individuals must sometimes challenge cultural norms if those norms are outdated or unjust. Literature can help provide the concepts needed to advance moral reasoning, though cultural practices can sometimes hinder this progress.

Thank you all for joining us. We’ve covered a lot about the impact of stories on children and how to connect with them through their own stories. Check out our website for more resources and activities. Let’s think about the best ways to be effective parents and share our ideas.

Thanks for joining us today!

 

1-Investigating the Effect of the Content of Children’s Stories on their Socialization, “In the Muslim community” (Case Study: 5-6 years-old children in Isfahan)”; Human Sciences Research Journal. Vol., 1,No.3,2015, ISSN 24333-3862

2-Rukeyser’s poem

3-Boltman, Angela. (2002). Childrens Storytelling Technologies: Differences in Elaboration and Recall. 

Aiex, N.K. (1988) Storytelling: Its wide-ranging impact in the classroom. Bloomington, IN: Clearinghouse on Reading and Communication Skills. (ERIC Document Reproduction Service No. ED299574).

Cass, J. (1967). Literature and the young child. London, England: Longmans, Green & Co. 

Grugeon, E. & Gardner, P. (2000). The art of storytelling for teachers and pupils. London, England: David Fulton Publishers.

McWilliams, B. (2000). What is storytelling? Retrieved October 9, 2000, from http://www.seanet.com/eldrbarry/roos/st_defn.htm. 

Meek, M. (1988). How texts teach what readers learn. Stroud, England: Thimble. 

National Council of Teachers of English, Committee on Storytelling. (1998, November). Teaching storytelling. Retrieved October 15, 2000, from http://www.ncte.org/teach/Storytelling7773.html.

4-Engel, S. (1999). The stories children tell.  New York: W.H. Freeman & Company.

5-McLean, Kate & Pasupathi, Monisha & L Pals, Jennifer. (2007). Selves Creating Stories Creating Selves: A Process Model of Self-Development. Personality and social psychology review : an official journal of the Society for Personality and Social Psychology, Inc. 11. 262-78. 10.1177/1088868307301034.

6-Sarbin, Theodore R. (1986). Narrative Psychology: The storied nature of human conduct. Praeger. ISBN 9780275921033.

7-https://www.ted.com/talks/emily_esfahani_smith_there_s_more_to_life_than_being_happy?language=en

8-Elder, Katherine. “Propaganda for Kids: Comparing IS-Produced Propaganda to Depictions of Propaganda in The Hunger Games and Harry Potter Film Series.” International Journal of Communication [Online], 12 (2018): 19. Web. 12 Jul. 2019

 

Recommended video to watch

Rudolph The Red Nosed Reindeer(Lyrics)

 

Lawrence Kohlberg (1958)

 

There’s more to life than being happy

 

Who was Kohlberg

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GTzBrjxKHLg&feature=youtu.be

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Text in Norwegian will be added soon please check later

Activity for parents 1

Let your beloved child tell you her/his own story life. Then illustrate it together and hang it to the wall. Leave it for later to discuss about. 

 

Activity for parents 2

What do you think about I and Me taken from stories?

Two classical theorists George Herbert Mead (February 27, 1863 – April 26, 1931) and Charles Horton Cooley (August 17, 1864 – May 7, 1929) both believe other people play a significant role in how individual view themselves but in a different way. Whereas Cooley thought that everyone that individual interacts with during their entire lifespan has an impression of how s/he perceives self-identity in some way or another, but for Mead, the process was more restricted. Mead believed that only certain people influence human perception of self and only during certain periods of life and it can change across the lifespan. For example, Mead thought infants and other very young children cannot actually be impressed by others. Instead, young children usually focus on their own world and, therefore, they don’t really care about what other people think of them. In short, they are not able to take the other’s perspective about themselves. But later, when children grow up their beliefs about how others perceived them become more important. Mead explained it in three stages including the preparatory stage, play stage, and game stage.

In case of understanding how your children take self from the world around and the stories please after reading night stories, let children discuss about the story in the other word, let them create their own story. Try to understand “How you became you”. After writing down those tips please let us share. 

 

Activity for parents 3

Make your children happy by giving them a book but later realize what concept they take as a lesson from the book after that discuss about it. help children consider new ideas through story. 

Also please watch the link below:

https://www.ted.com/talks/emily_esfahani_smith_there_s_more_to_life_than_being_happy/transcript?language=en#t-28009 

 

Activity for parents 4

Examining Child’s Concept of Death. Considering the difference between the “Religious Rituals” mentioning the concept of death such as Al Adha, and the traditional one like the funeral ritual. Let’s share that do parents allow the child to participate in those rituals both?

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